Thursday 13 April 2023

Who Gets to Call You Beautiful?

 

 

Who gets to call you beautiful?

Is it the man/ the woman/ the child/ the friend/ the co-worker/ the neighbour/ the random person you passed by on the street yesterday?

Who gets to call you beautiful?

The one who broke your heart?  Who lied?  Who left? The one who no longer stands by your side?

Why

on earth

would you ever trust the words or thoughts or opinions of THAT person –

you know, the one who hurts and harms and hates

the one who throws and casts out pain and prejudice, damage and deceit.

Why

on earth

would you allow yourself to be weighed/ measured/ valued/ inspected

evaluated

so that you determine your worth

through tainted eyes?

Why do we allow that one to decide our beauty, our worth, our value?

You know who gets to call you beautiful?

The man/ the woman/ GOD/ the child/ the friend/ the co-worker/ YOU/ the neighbour/ the random person you passed by on the street yesterday,

The one who built up your heart.  Who loved.  Who stayed.  Who always remains by your side.

Why

on earth

wouldn’t you trust the words and thoughts and opinons of THAT person –

you know, the one who holds and delights in and supports

the one who cherishes and understands, who shoulders burdens and shares life.

Why

on earth

wouldn’t you allow yourself to be valued/ cherished/ loved/ held/ honoured

respected

so that you determine your SELF

through the eyes of one who loves?

 

Who gets to call you beautiful?

The one who sees and knows your heart.

 

-         bv